quarta-feira, 24 de janeiro de 2018

Love Yourself EN

 We all should care more about ourselves for ourselves instead of taking care of us for the others.
It's been a while since I wrote something like this. Between all the posts about fashion, beauty and lifestyle I thought I should create a little bit of space to talk about loving ourselves. It's something I have been struggling for a long time and for sure I'm not alone in this one. Awkwardly loving "us" is one of the most difficult tasks I have ever need to do. Accepting your body, mind, weirdness, wtv... It's not as easy as we or the others might think. Self-Love is so underrated. We all should care more about ourselves for ourselves instead of taking care of us for the others. U know what I mean?

I think it's time for me to talk about loving our body's and souls. It's time for us to exhume that thing. It's been forgotten for a while, but we can let that happen. What are we without self-love and a just a little bit of confidence? We spend our lives trying to please everybody except us. Why do we love everybody more than we love ourselves? It's not selfish so why don't we do it more? 

I'm on vacations from college and Y'all I feel free! I can do whatever I want. I can go to bed at 5am and wake up at at midnight from the other day cause I ain't got nothing to do. So I do what everybody does while on vacation. Binge watching all the shows. From Wendy to Oprah, without forgetting Ellen. From the Kardashians to Love Island. Stranger Things, to star, the fosters, The End Of the Fucking World. Till I found the best show I ever saw in my life. Yes! Better than Skam, Pretty Little Liars and even The Fosters. Chelsea and The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel. I do not believe in god but thank god we have people directing and producing this types of shows. Without them when would we have time for yourselves? Exactly. Never!

You are probably wondering why the f*ck am I talking about tv shows on a post related to self-love, right? Well... I don't know either. But there's a thing. They help us distract from the world. From everything outside of us. We just get cosy on our couch and there we go. An amazing trip to the world of "idk where this is going to take me, but that airplane sit is mine". That's what tv shows do to us. They make us travel and think about us. About our role in society and in our own life. Without Tv shows I would never realise that it's okay to be weird, gay, black, muslim, wtv. They help us figure it out things. They show us what we want to see and say the things that we wanna hear but are afraid to say it.

The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel. Oh dear! I love that show. I started it yesterday and I already finished. 8 hours of pure stand up comedy. 8 hours of me laughing and crying because they split up. 8 hours of women empowerment. Midge Maisel you are my queen. Even though she's rich she kept going even though her husband left her for his secretary. But that's not the point. She pursuide something. She made it to comedy shows and became the realness comedian of that little street coffee. With all the highs and lows. That's self love. Do what you want to do even if you  have to hide it from your family. Self-love is believing in you when nobody else does. It's walk on the street alone to chase your dreams while your friends who promised you they would be by your side are laying on the couches. That's self-love. It's taking care of you.´

Getting into the point of this post and forgetting the tv shows. You should love yourself. I have been struggling a little bit with that lately, but I keep going on cause I know it's gonna get better. Lack of confidence? It's normal, but do not let that sh*t tear you down. Keep fighting. Show everybody that you can do it. Love your body. Nobody in the world get's to tell if you are worth it or not just because you are fat or skin, or big or short. If they do that... they are something I can't say. They can tell you need to change because of health issues but never tell you aren't worth it or enough or wtv they are saying to you. 

Love yourself is about accepting who you really are. Is analyze every piece of you and learn to love them. All the flaws and every damn good thing you have in you. I still not know what loving yourself totally means or what we feels to love yourself. I'm still learning, but I promise I'll get there and you will do it with me. We are on this one together, you hear me? 
Go on! Walk there. Stand in front of the mirror and say 'I love me' every day. In the morning. In the night. Anytime you freaking need it till you know it. And don't worry if one day you can't do it. It's normal. What would it be of happiness without sadness, right?

This post is all over the place but I like the way it turned out. Before I left I want you to know that you can count on me for anything you need. I do love you and I am thankful for you, so live your life and be happy. Don't waste your time. Do something for you and for the world!

Love you all,
Pedro Terrantez


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